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Walking the walk - Why are guys so timid? - 9/18/2002 I like to experiment - and most men say they do too - the problem is when I still want to and am willing to do these o-so-fun things they say they want to do to me, they get "uncomfortable" - they lie and then I am that one who feels discomfort and shame. <br> What's with that? What's light bondage, a little 3-way or nipple clamps? Lightweight, right? It's not youth alone - ... 4 response(s), 0 votes |
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CAN A SUB like - 9/15/2002 yes i want a sub to tease please but i wan tone for scenes and sodamy for a change.Any subs out there that like that? 1 response(s), 0 votes |
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are there many women who like to fist straight men? - 9/13/2002 for 20 years with multiple lovers i have been fisted by women[i'm a no doubt straight man]and am curious how many women are into it and how many straight men have been able to enjoy it given the inhibitions of male culture. 0 response(s), 1 vote |
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need help controling my slave - 9/7/2002 hi i'm new to this and the man i want for my slave can't give me the time of day we talk all the time about what he likes and how he want to be controled i make him weak with my words but to get him under my power is a driffrent thing and i love this slave and it hurt see him with other mistress he dose not give me a second glance...i really need some help 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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how do you know what your mate wants - 9/6/2002 I am a woman in my late 30's I have been out of the dating scene for a very long time. how do I know what my partner wants? I'am afraid I will scare him if I let my true feelings come out. I could use all the help yall are willing to give me 0 response(s), 1 vote |
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How do you get started? - 9/4/2002 I am brand new to all this. I am a happily married woman who has always been interested in bdsm, but husband is not. I thought I'd try a few things virtually to find out how much this really suits/doesn't suit me. I have looked around and most of the profiles seem to want longer commitments than what I'm looking for. Help! 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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Are there any clubs in S. CA for people into watersports? - 8/19/2002 I really enjoy having a sexy woman piss on my face and in my mouth. I also enjoy having her start pissing while I'm eating her. This can be very hot for both of us. I've also recieved golden showers from men and this can be very hot as well. Are there any clubs or organizations that cater to this? 1 response(s), 0 votes |
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Married Men?? - 8/12/2002 why do married men lie about their status to women, why not be truthful in the beginning and see what happens, by lying you make the woman wonder what else you may have lied about to them?? 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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I'm new, What are the true basic's for being a sub? - 8/10/2002 I have the desire, but lack something......I have always been in love with the person I wish to be my master...he is giving me the chance to prove myself.....and prove myself I MUST!!!! What are the things I should know? what are big no-no's? Please help me!! 0 response(s), 1 vote |
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What percentage of women have ever experienced - 7/30/2002 I absolutely love giving oral pleasures to women. I am a pleaser by all accounts but I also like to be pleased. Being pleased myself is not my goal when I make love to a woman. However, over the years I have found that by giving pleasure to a woman actually satifies me completely, even if I don't climax myself. I love seeing the excitement, or even fear in the eyes of a woman that is ... 0 response(s), 1 vote |
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Extreme Tit-torture - Br-Bondage - Br-Suspension - 7/30/2002 I´m fascinated about extrem (but sane!) tit- torture. I´ve seen several pics on the net and on some profiles where heavy painsluts have been hanging around with their full weight only on their tight bound tits. I´d like to play such extreme games too, but I want to hear from experienced Tops / painsluts about the healty risks and the major know how to avoid injury. Further I´d looking ... 0 response(s), 1 vote |
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Mental pain - 7/23/2002 Need some advice on inflicting mental pain. Lets face it we call all do the physical stuff, but the mental is a bit more trickly.. Need some help and advice with this for my female sub. 0 response(s), 1 vote |
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wife wont do it - 7/15/2002 Ive been married for 6 years now and often times find myself wandering into the fantasy world. I have tried to express my feelings of domination/submission to my wife but she wants nothing to do with it. I have attempted to try various techniques on my wife only to be scorned for thinking these thoughts. I am a very dominant person but wouldnt mind submitting either. I fantasize of being ... 3 response(s), 0 votes |
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ALT lifestyle groups in Ocala FL? - 7/10/2002 Are there any ALT lifestyle groups in Ocala FL? how can I contact them? 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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Groups in Ocala FL? - 7/3/2002 Is there a Dom/Sub community in Ocala FL.? How can I contact them? 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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where do i find a prodom in minnesota - 6/29/2002 i have been looking for a dom to put me in my place but have not had any luck as of yet.can anyone suggest a prodom in minnesota or northern wisconsin.thanks... 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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I need a woman with a camera - 6/29/2002 I'm a 36 year old male looking to get back 'on scene' after a prolonged absence & I need photos for my ad. I've tried a few Alt members but none seems willing to help. If any women (preferably in or around Gloucestershire or Lancashire, England) are able to help me out in this respect then I will, of course, return the favour in any way desired. Genuine offers or advice please. No ... 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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Etectrotorture - 6/29/2002 Can anyone tell me where to buy electrical torture devices? 1 response(s), 0 votes |
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force me to suck cock(s) - 6/24/2002 Married white male. Want to experience submission to a woman or multiple women. My fantasy starts with me submitting to a small group of women. I had volunteered to jerk off for their amusement in a response to an online chat. When I arrive the 3 women take a very aggressive stance with me and order me to strip naked. I put on my show for them but I cum to soon. I am grabbed by my hair ... 1 response(s), 0 votes |
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Are there any women in Southern California to orally service during - 6/22/2002 I am an attractive WM DD Free (Scorpio) who flouishes on the total taste of a woman. When they say Oh I can't it is that time of the month my response is that it only makes it more exciting and pleasurable - I love the taste of a woman anytime. Most women freak out my question is are there any women in Southern California (That is not a Pro) who would enjoy that experience? 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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24/7 - 6/21/2002 What is the meaning of 24/7 and the accompaning sentence Total Power exchange. Curious dom. 2 response(s), 0 votes |
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Why do I feel unwanted stress about My Masterdom - 6/16/2002 Will I feel stress at the the fact some people want things without geting their fingers dirty, why does one sit in chat rooms when there is a serious need by , both parties to get it really on. Only one transexully made me feel like a master of any worth until the poor thing found out i was black and back right out. I would not in the least bit of hurt her or made her a suject of foolish ... 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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A bigger penis. - 6/6/2002 hi friends, do anyone know how should i have a bigger penis? Please help. Thank you. 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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how can i find someone to fist me gor the first time? - 6/5/2002 am a submissive bottom who deeply enjoy's dildo's and butt plugs and now wants to try fisting. how do i locate someone to share my first experience with? 3 response(s), 1 vote |
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Virgin need help - 5/30/2002 Hi I am a 27 year old Virgin and that scares most women I meet. How do I find someone who is not worried about me getting to attached to them. Or am I cursed forever. Please help 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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I know this is really gross but is anyone into puke? - 5/29/2002 More and more porn includes puking lately. Whether it is girls inducing vomiting for guys to watch or puking on guys/girls or rough oral sex which leads to vomit, seems to be more of it. Also many chat lines for girls and guys who get off on it. I am a dom who would like to make his sub puke as part of a session, as long as she is "willing". Anyone done this? I am in NY/NJ metro area. ... 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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What activities are involved for female dominatrix? - 5/25/2002 We are a couple who are interested in exploring BDSM. The female is interested in becoming a dominatrix. What activities are good to begin with? 1 response(s), 0 votes |
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Needle nipple torture... - 5/24/2002 I have seen pics of needles used for nipple and breast torture. They have a plastic tab on the dull end making them easier to hold. Does anyone know where to buy such needles? Are they acupuncture needles? Any info here would be appreciated, thanks, Stann59 or exinker@aol.com 1 response(s), 0 votes |
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Drinking my own piss - 4/21/2002 I drink my piss and enjoy it. I drink it staight or piss in my coffee or juice. I have been thinking lately that I wish to drink my morning piss. The thought of pissing in a glass when I get up really turns me on. Is there anything wrong with drinking my morning piss. I have read on the net that many people do that but I don't know how accurate that is. 0 response(s), 0 votes |
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I can't seem to get any responses, what am I doing wrong ? - 4/14/2002 I am a good looking Dom who owns several businesses and love to treat the women who I get very well. When it is time for BDSM, she get's all she can handle and more. And when it's time for security, she always feels wanted, and needed, and never wants for anything material. Now I seem to have hit a dry spell. No one seems to want me for some reason. What am I doing wrong ? What ... 2 response(s), 1 vote |
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